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    • Marriage is one of life’s most significant milestones and an essential part of the life of the Church. Through this lifelong bond, the love you share, rooted in Jesus Christ, extends beyond your family and strengthens the Church and community as a whole. The Church walks alongside couples throughout marriage preparation, offering guidance, prayer, and spiritual formation to help them enter this vocation with intention, faith, and a deep commitment to one another.

      "Marriage consecrated by God preserves that bond between man and woman that God has blessed ever since the creation of the world." - Pope Francis

      What is required to get married in a Catholic Church in Maine? 

      To get married in a Catholic church Maine, you must first contact the parish that manages that church. Each parish manages its own marriage preparation programs.

      In general, an important first step in preparing for marriage is to meet with a priest or deacon. This conversation allows you to reserve a date and church for your wedding and to begin the immediate preparation for the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. Together, you can discuss the marriage preparation requirements and explore the options available in your area. Participation may take place through a program offered at your parish or through another option recognized by the Diocese of Portland.

      Most parishes offer marriage preparation programs once a year. Some are held in person, while others are offered fully or partially online, allowing couples to choose the format that best fits their needs. Below are a few recommended virtual marriage preparation courses, as well as upcoming in-person programs.

  • Virtual Marriage Preparation Programs

    • S&K PUBlishers

      Steve and Kathy Beirne, of Portland, offer a series of one-on-one zoom sessions designed to prepare couples for the fullness of Catholic Marriage. This course is also valid for couples seeking convalidation.

      Learn More
    • Evangelize Boston

      The Archdiocese of Boston offers a program called Transformed in Love. While most of these programs are in-person, they host several virtual programs throughout the year. This course is also valid for couples seeking convalidation.

      Learn More
  • In-Person Marriage Preparation Programs

    • Portland Peninsula & Island Parishes
    • St. Paul the Apostle Parish, Bangor
    • Prince of Peace Parish, Lewiston
    • Christian Life Center, Frenchville
    • All Saints Parish, Brunswick
    Portland Peninsula & Island Parishes
    • Portland Peninsula & Island Parishes

      Catholic parishes in Greater Portland offer the “Transformed in Love” sacramental marriage preparation program, a clergy and parish-led experience designed to help engaged couples reflect on their Catholic faith, the sacrament of marriage, and the realities of married life. 

      The program is hosted at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception Rectory and is open to all engaged couples, with preference given to those preparing for marriage in the Portland Peninsula and Island Parishes and St. John Paul II Parish. A $125 registration fee is required, and financial assistance is available. Couples should confirm with their pastor that this program fulfills their parish marriage preparation requirements before registering.

      For more information on the program, please call the Portland Peninsula and Islands Pastoral Center at 207-773-7746. 

      Upcoming programs:
      • October 18 to November 15, 2026, Sundays 2-5 p.m.
      • February 14 to March 14, 2027, Sundays 2-5 p.m.
    St. Paul the Apostle Parish, Bangor
    • St. Paul the Apostle Parish, Bangor

      Transformed in Love: A Catholic Marriage Preparation Program will be held at St. Joseph Church, 531 Main Street in Brewer on October 3 and 4, 2026. Topics will include knowing your true self, strengthening communication skills, managing expectations, financial planning and strategies, and keeping Christ at the center of our marriage. The cost is $100 per couple, which covers materials and meals.

      Registration: Marriage Ministry - St. Paul the Apostle Parish - Bangor, ME 
      Contact: Jennifer Hikel at 207-217-1449 or [email protected]

    Prince of Peace Parish, Lewiston
    • Prince of Peace Parish, Lewiston

      Future dates coming soon to the Basilica of Ss. Peter & Paul at 122 Ash Street in Lewiston.

      To register or for more information, email: [email protected].

    Christian Life Center, Frenchville
    • Christian Life Center, Frenchville

      The Christian Life Center will present a Marriage Prep workshop in two parts on two consecutive Saturdays, April 10 and 17, 2027 from 9:00 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. The program used will be Transformed in Love from the Archdiocese of Boston. The cost of the workshop is $150 per couple and includes one workbook. Additional workbooks are available at $20 each. To register or for more information contact the Christian Life Center at (207) 543-6193 or [email protected]
    All Saints Parish, Brunswick
    • All Saints Parish, Brunswick

      All Saints Parish in Brunswick hosts a Marriage Preparation Retreat. It will be led by All Saints Parish Marriage Preparation Team, which includes married couples and clergy. You will be inspired and challenged through presentations, personal reflection, couples’ conversations, group sharing, and Mass. Presentations are based on Better Together, published by Dynamic Catholic.

      Cost: $50/couple 

      For more information, please email [email protected].

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